SAY NO TO RAPE ; IT IS INHUMAN
By Hon.Dr. Abiola Makinde
As long as I condemned in totality the act of rape in our society I also want to affirm that Ondo men are honorable and would not condescend so low to infringe indelible pain on innocent ladies and girls in the society.
Rape is mostly caused by low self-esteem when a man would not have the boldness and the needed charisma to ask a lady out in a proper manner that is mutually agreed upon by both parties. The man may have the urge to gratify his sexual desire owing to the feelings he has for the lady but could not come out plane to express himself as a result of low self-esteem.
Rape may also take another dimension when a man would want to intentionally carryout an act of wickedness by raping a lady as a result of her rudeness . This act is however, condemnable and antithetical to the well-being of people in a society.
Although, no scientific device anywhere in the world today that could easily beep an alert whenever any of these wicked elements are close by but having established the fact that rapist are depraved set of personalities living within and around us, they tend to unknowingly behave with so much easy to detect similarities. Thus, leaving the golden chance for unsuspecting parents, guidance as well as the innocent prospective prey, who could be a bit more observant to easily detect every bit of the original ulterior motives of that partial and total strangers hovering around your succulent pride of life.
Rather than raping, why not build up your self-esteem to be able to address every bit of your life challenges without hurting others.
You need self-ascertive training to so you could overcome low self-esteem.
Until you can declare that ” I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive, never to hurt others, and to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me- I own me and I can engineer me, I am me and I am ok”, you are still a shadow of yourself.
Build your self-esteem
Say no to rape
It attracts heavy punishment
Together Let’s build a sane society
